An Open Letter To Toddler Groups

Please talk with us before you ban us

I know you need rules and policies. I appreciate that you don't want big kids trampling on the babies or equipment breaking. I get that you have limited numbers and you don't want a hall full of school age kids when your focus in on little ones.

But before you tell me that I can't bring my son, can you pause a minute? Because I don't think you realise the impact that your words have.

How I went home crying after you told me I couldn't bring my son again. How since that day I've not been able to take my daughter to the group we both enjoyed because I couldn't leave my son at home alone.

You didn't know what a big deal it was for my son to come to the group and have a few minutes of off screen play, and to play for a couple of minutes with his sister.

You didn't know what a relief it was to have somewhere warm and affordable to bring them where I could chat with some other adults and all get out of the house.

You didn't know how hard it was for me to answer questions about him not being in school when this wasn't what we planned or wanted.

Next time can we have a conversation?

Can we try and make something work or can you at least try and understand the loss you cause us in your statement that 'school aged siblings aren't allowed'. We already feel on the edge you see.

Thank you

Faith